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Not-So-Perfect Parent: The Dangers of Summer Strangers

7:15 AM Mon, Jul 06, 2009 |
Paige
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As summer gets into full swing, many children will be free to play outside, go for walks, and spend time with their friends without constant adult or parent supervision. Because of this, summer is the busiest time of year for child abductions. Brink's Home Security has created helpful kid's safety tips, offering a wide range of child safety information. Some tips are included below:

1. Approach the subject of safety in a non-threatening way. It is important you don't make your child fearful of dangerous situations or people, but cautious and able to recognize when something is not right.
2. Encourage your children to trust his/her intuition, and to be able to talk to you when something is bothering them. They should know not to keep secrets from you. Open communication is very important as well as truly listening to your child.
3. Let your child know that their body belongs to them. No one has the right to touch them inappropriately. If someone is making them feel uncomfortable, they should let you know immediately.
4. Inform your child of rules pertaining to strangers. A stranger looks just like any other person and will use several ways to lure a child. The most common ones are: pretending to look for a lost dog, having candy or money if the child goes to their car with them, telling the child they will hurt family members if they do not comply, and asking for directions.
5. Let your child know that adults DO NOT ask children for help nor do they threaten them. If they do encounter these situations, they should immediately scream "NO!" and run quickly in the opposite direction and try to find a trusted adult. They should never approach an unknown car or get into a car with an adult they do not know. If someone tries to grab them, they should scream "THIS IS NOT MY PARENT!" to attract attention.
6. Share an easily-remembered secret "Code Word". Tell your child that if anyone approaches them and says that they are a family friend, they must ask for the code word. If the person really is a friend, they will know it. If they don't, then your child should run away as quickly as possible.
7. Never label clothing, a backpack, or other personal items with your child's name. An abductor could use them information to gain trust.
8. Give your child instructions on what to do if they get separated from you in a mall, supermarket, or other public place. Tell them to go to a check-out counter or information desk, or to approach a security officer or other mother with children, and let them know that they are lost and looking for their parent(s).
9. Make sure that your child knows his/her full name, address, phone number, the place where you work, how you can best be contacted during the day, how to dial 911, make collect calls, and dial the operator from a pay phone.
10. Know where your child is at all times, and keep a list of their friends, addresses and phone numbers.
11. Remember to update your child's records every 6-12 months because of his/her growth.
12. If your child is missing, try not to panic. First, check everywhere in your home and speak with your neighbors and your child's friends. If you still cannot locate them, immediately contact the police.

The Brink's Child ID Safety kit is available to anyone free of charge. Just contact your local Brink's Home Security office or call 1-877-8BRINKS.

To find additional tips on how to help protect your child at home, at school, and online, log-on to http://www.brinkshomesecurity.com/Kids-Safety-Tips.html




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