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April 2008
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I love to watch a child delight in simple things. The kinds of things that are almost invisible to grown-ups as we wallow in the details. Yesterday, my youngest sat in front of an oscillating fan singing “Twinkle-Twinkle Little Star” and giggling periodically hearing his voice altered by the swirling blades. He loved to push the button on top delighted that the fan would start and stop on his command. He was fascinated and I was fascinated by his fascination. Later we went outside and blew bubbles. He chased the larger ones trying to catch them before they popped. He stopped only to observe an interested squirrel seeking food before returning the safety of the trees. If you stop and think about it, how often do adults relish in the delights of something new? Every now and then, we may get a little jazzed up the two times a year we take a nature hike or visit an art museum. However, for the most part, we have the attitude of “been there, done that” and it takes a lot for us to take notice. I think that is why the entertainment industry is compelled to produce shocking programming – it’s the only thing that gets our attention. Maintaining childhood wonder is almost impossible. However, one way to start is by being grateful. Grateful for the little things such as turning on a light, sending an email, or watching an airplane sour above. Maybe through our gratitude, wonder can be restored and appreciation renewed. Until that time, grab your kids (or borrow some if you don’t have any) and relish in their wonder. Watching their fascination will motivate you to find your own. |
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