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Not-So-Perfect Parent: Worst of Times/Best of Times

7:15 AM Wed, Nov 29, 2006 |
Paige
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I envy historians. After years studying different eras, civilizations and cultures, historians earn the wonderful gift of perspective. They are able to evaluate the realities of a current generation and compare it to circumstances that define previous generations. They are able to assess whether the challenges that an existing society experiences are worse than what people from a different era faced. This quote comes to mind,

“It was the best of times, it was the worst of times, it was the age of wisdom, it was the age of foolishness, it was the epoch of belief, it was the epoch of incredulity, it was the season of light, it was the season of darkness, it was the spring of hope, it was the winter of despair, we had everything before us, we had nothing before us, we were all going direct to heaven, we were all going direct the other way--in short, the period was so far like the present period, that some of its noisiest authorities insisted on its being received, for good or for evil, in the superlative degree of comparison only.”

When Charles Dickens wrote this passage in the classic “A Tale of Two Cities”, he was commenting on the conditions of the Industrial Revolution. During his era, plague and epidemics raged, child labor was at an all-time high, and public executions served as a spectator sport for townspeople. In fact, “Oliver Twist” served as a commentary on the conditions of workhouses and orphanages that existed during that time.

Still, my mother-in-law constantly reminds me of how society’s moral compass has eroded and that she does not envy the current generation of parents trying to raise children during these corrupt times.

She has a point. During this age of technology, it is difficult to defend the moral character of our generation. Everyday, we are bombarded with images and stories about war, crime, indecency and public misfortune. In addition, the internet has further exposed our children to dangerous predators and pornographic material.

So is God wringing his hands and considering another flood to get our attention? Has society’s moral code become so diluted that everything is acceptable? Or, could it be that every generation has its challenges and that values may change form but do not necessarily deteriorate. Or, is it possible that our 24/7 access to news and information clouds our vision of the human spirit?

During a recent “What is the World Coming to” conversation with my mother-in-law, I asked her this question: “How did you survive the 1960’s?” After all, during that brief decade, the country suffered three high-profile assassinations (John Kennedy, Robert Kennedy, and Martin Luther King), the Vietnam War, the Bay of Pigs, the Cuban Missal Crisis, the Civil Rights Movement, the birth of the Hippie Movement and the Sexual Revolution. Somehow, she was able to raise three children during this tumultuous time.

Don’t get me wrong, although I watch a lot of Sesame Street these days, I know we have difficulty playing nicely. I am very much aware of the importance of maintaining a strong family unit to combat the monsters that are everywhere other than our children’s closets. However, I do believe that history tells us that poverty, crime, war and sexual immorality are nothing new. I challenge you to sit down with your child and review some of the history homework. Regardless if she is studying the Civil War or the Civil Rights Movement, you can make the argument that “it was the best of times, it was the worst of times.”



1 Comments

rachel said:

Great points- Yes, even in BIBLE times, there was some crazy stuff going on.... I believe that in each generation, it is our job as parents to help instill those values to our children so that they know what choices to make in whatever scenarios the next generation brings..... Rachel


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