I know that I have not been posting lately, well hardly at all. By no way am i trying to create excuses, but I have been trying to embrace the Greek culture, which does not involve the internet.
The Greek culture is filled with laid-back cafes and places to pick up a cheap gyro (only about 3 Euros), but only a few internet cafes. Even in these cafes it is mainly tourists who are checking their email. So unfortunately it has not been a top priority to get myself online, which has caused this blog to suffer in return. However, since I am now at an Internet cafe, I will give a quick rundown of what I have been up to in the past month or so.
It's been the same old routine with classes, but there were two very welcomed interruptions. The first was that I traveled the mainland of Greece for about five days as a sort of "field trip" for the program. We stopped at almost every major tourist site including the Acropolis in Athens, the Oracle of Delphi, and the Olympic Stadium. It was very rushed and I spent many hours on a bus, but it was all worth it to be able to see everything that we did. The other trip was one that I took with a couple girlfriends to Barcelona, Spain. We stayed in a hostel for six nights and met a variety of people from around the globe. This trip was focused more on nightlife than seeing the sites and it was a nice change of scenery from what we were used to.
As for the rest of the time in Rhodes, we have rented cars and driven around the island to explore where the buses will not take us, such as the southern tip of the island (where there is amazing snorkeling) and Lindos (where there is a castle on top of a hill that you can ride donkeys up to)! Easter is almost here, which is the official kick-off of tourist season, so I'm sure I will find plenty more things to explore as more businesses begin to open.
I only have one more month in Rhodes, so I will try my hardest to write more often! After that I will be in Dion, Greece for a three week summer course and then who knows after that. Maybe island hopping? The possibilities are endless...
In a small village where everyone knows everyone else, a wedding of one of its young women is quite an ordeal. Last weekend a few of us were invited to go and watch the evening-long process -- which is quite different from anything we are used to.
When we first arrived at the house of the bride, we were all pinned with small white fabric roses that showed that we were a part of the wedding. From there we were offered more pastries and drinks than we could handle, which was a good thing because we were missing dinner!
The groom was not allowed in the house to see his future wife until she was fully dressed and ready to go to the church. About an hour after we got there, she was still getting her hair and makeup done, so I'm sure the groom was getting a little restless -- they were already two hours behind schedule. The bride was in her room with the bridal party and her family while about 50 people waited outside for her to get dressed. Getting a bride dressed is an old tradition that involves her removing her clothes and her family dressing her. Usually this is done in a living room with everyone watching and singing, but she was shy and wanted it to be done in her own room. (I dont really blame her.)
A man playing an accordion and another playing a violin went into her room and all the elderly women sang as she was dressed. After about 20 minutes of singing she was finally ready and everyone lined the street outside her house to throw nuts and candy at the couple as they began the short walk to the church. I think the entire village may have been there, and a few of my friends were pelted with walnuts by a few of the younger attendants.
We all followed the bride and groom to the church, which was about a 10 minute walk. The bells from the church rang out with the traditional wedding song. An interesting side note -- the bells only ring for a person three times in life: when they are baptized, when they are married, and at their funeral.
At the church everyone gathered around the men with the violin and the accordion and they began to play once again. First the bride and groom started to dance in a circle, and soon other members of their family joined. The dancing was cut short because the wedding was behind schedule, so we all entered the church.
The most dramatic difference between this Greek wedding and an American wedding was evident once the ceremony started. Everyone who was there to see the bride and groom get married did not sit quietly and take in every detail of what was going on. Instead, everyone walked around freely while having full conversations with the person next to them and did not hide the fact that they were being loud.
However, this did not seem to distract the bride and groom as they went through the motions of the rings, of switching a crown-like veil on their heads, and of dancing around in a circle while getting rice thrown at them. They were married within one hour, and then everyone in the chuch lined up to give their congratulations to the happy couple.
At this point my friends and I left, but not without getting one of the small goody bags filled with chocolate that were being passed out as we left the church!
Wow Lauren - what an experience to be invited to a traditional wedding. It sounds quite different from the ones in the states. I hope you are drinking in all of that greek culture! Miss and love you!
Posted by: Sherril at February 24, 2006 11:14 AM
Lauren,what a wonderful presentation!i suppose everybody envies you for your experience in Rhodes.If it is ok with you we would like to include you in our Paideia e-mail list and keep you informed on Greek events in the RI area.It is Paideia that has introduced and offered the Greek class you took at URI.
Posted by: john lyssikatos at February 26, 2006 08:10 AM
Hey Daphne!
Thanks so much for filling us all in our your days in Rhodes! Sounds like you are really enjoying yourself! We are missing you tons here and have many things to share with you, I'm sure. I promise to write you an e-mail soon, but for now this will have to suffice!
Miss ya tons!
~Ariel~
Posted by: Adrianna at February 26, 2006 02:36 PM
hi i saw your comments on a greek wedding,and i was interested to know if you would have an address for cultural activities on Rhodes.my family and i are visiting in april and we have an interest in dance ,lessons or workshops, greek, belly etc. Would you have any ideas or info on this?s Have a good time in greece for your time left.L
Posted by: linda small at March 18, 2006 11:12 AM
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February 15, 2006
Kalimera!!!
Hi everyone! My name is Lauren Whaley and I am here in beautiful Rhodes, Greece studying history for the semester. I am originally from Narragansett, Rhode Island (the locals here get a kick out of me coming from a state that has the same name as their island) and I graduated from Narragansett High School in 2003. I now attend the University of Rhode Island where I am majoring in journalism and minoring in both history and political science- hopefully to prepare myself to go to law school in the near future.
School here is different than anything back home. I am taking five classes, three history, one political science, and Greek 101. They are taught in three different buildings all spread throughout the island. One is at the University of the Aegean campus and looks much like any college building. It is in the middle of Rhodes Town, the main city of the island. Another building is actually an aquarium that is located on the tip of Rhodes Town which is also the tip of the island. As my fellow classmates and I are taught we are given a panoramic view of the ocean with the mountains of Turkey silhouetting the horizon a mere five miles in the distance. The third building is located in the town I live in, Soroni, which is about 45 minutes from Rhodes Town.
Soroni is a small village where everyone seems to be related to everyone else. There are about 20 students in the study abroad program and we are all housed in apartments that are more of a mini dorm. The locals have been extremely nice to us so far, and the instant we go anywhere they will ask if we are the Americans from Soroni. I guess we really stick out.
Sounds like you are having a good time. have you seen Kustos yet? lol i will always associate your trip with Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants..miss you already!
manda
Posted by: Manda at February 15, 2006 03:32 PM
Hi Lauren! It's pretty funny that you decided to study abroad in a place with the same name as your home state. You must be getting very close with the 20 students you studied abroad with since you are all associated together as the "americans from Soroni" by the locals. Good luck with Greek 101! Miss you!
Posted by: Christine at February 15, 2006 10:53 PM
Hi Lauren-
It sounds beautiful and I can't wait to see it when I visit you. Hope classes are going well and that you are learning some Greek yourself. Love and miss you!
Posted by: Sherril at February 16, 2006 11:49 AM
You lucky little wiseapple...it must be nice to be getting your college credits in such a beautiful place. Enjoy it and we enjoy hearing from you
Posted by: Merl and Glo at February 16, 2006 09:33 PM
Hello pleasure reading my dear American friends i live in the next village over called Kalavarda in the county of (Ancient) Kameiros. I'm from Toronto Canada now living in Rhodes. I actually have bumped into some of your students at Soroni shops. pleasure hearing them speak Greek
Keep Up The Good Work
Posted by: Bill Lagogianis at February 17, 2006 02:31 AM
Sounds like you are having a really good time! Miss you back in Rhode Island!!!
Posted by: Carissa at February 18, 2006 12:37 AM
That sounds like a really fun experience. I'm so happy for you! I can't wait to see the pictures when you get home. Have fun and stay safe!
Posted by: Caitlyn Lowman at February 27, 2006 08:40 PM
Hi Lauren -
What a fun wedding! Sounds like you and Greece are a good match. Look forward to hearing more. Love, Maggi