What is DeAnna thinking?! She's seriously going to go home and meet sweet little Jesse's parents when she hasn't even kissed him. In fact, she said that she was the least physically attracted to the guy and he told her face to face...it's cool if you dump me...I wish you the best. I realize that's not an exact quote, but it's basically what he was trying to say to her by the pool before Graham stole her away. Jesse didn't even try to kiss her. He's too shy and afraid of rejection. He's never going to be able to handle being with DeAnna. She's going to have to tackle the guy if she expects to get any action.

It was horribly painful to sit through an hour of "The Bachelorette Tell All", which was basically a worthless recap infused with commentary by Trista and Ryan...seriously...who did they sleep with at ABC? Why is their opinion still relevant? I get it that they are a success story, but they are the ONLY real success story in 8 years of doing the show. At some point they need to LET IT GO! The only part of the special that I enjoyed was the indepth look at Sean. Oh precious...we all know that you are overcompensating for something. I was a little confused however...were the tanning bed and sauna inside his Hummer or in the basement of that gigantic house? I'm kidding of course, but you know that guy is known as the biggest TOOL BAG in town. Thank goodness for ole Ron the barber who "updated" Sean's look by cutting off the mullet in the man shed. I actually thought it was the producer's idea. I'm glad that the boys decided to step up and help a brother out. Mullets are bad!

You know what else is bad...Twilley! Poor, poor Twilley. I can't believe he made it this far. You know the guy is struggling when the guys are making bets on how badly he's going to screw up. He's actually not a bad looking guy, when he's not making faces and trying soooo hard to be funny. He seems like he'd be an okay dude to hang out with, but he ruins it for himself every time he opens his mouth and tries to do an impression or tell a story or sing! He just needs to relax. I think he's right...he will make someone a good husband someday...if he shuts up long enough for them to fall for him. I'm glad DeAnna finally let him go. Maybe he'll see himself on TV and realize that sometimes less is more.

DeAnna decided to keep Jeremy after their romantic one on one date at Frank Sinatra's House. It must be the abs! That guy seems completely void of personality. I think he's nice and I know that DeAnna feels bonded to him because he lost his parents and all, but I can barely hear him when he speaks. He says he's an adrenaline junky and that he likes to sky dive and race motorcycles, but I swear I can't see him ever getting out of 1st gear. Especially with DeAnna around...she didn't even let the guy drive! Seems to me that part of DeAnna's problem with men is that she always has to be in control. Sometimes...you have to let the guy drive...even if you think you can do it better.

Graham is a totally different story. He is definitely driving. I think that is what DeAnna likes about him. She can't control him. He's the one guy that she gets to be a girl around. I think it irritates her, but she's drawn to it at the same time. It brings out a different side of her. One that make her more vulnerable. They definitely have the chemistry...we'll see if that's enough.

The final guy that made the final four is Jason. Jason is the easy bake oven of the bunch. He's a ready made family...just insert DeAnna and DONE. I like Jason. I think he's a good guy, but I don't know if DeAnna really knows what she's getting herself into and she really has to be ready to take a back seat to that child. I don't think she can do that. DeAnna has made it very clear that she wants to be number one and she definitely seems to want to be the center of attention at all times. You just can't have that when there is a child involved. Ty will come first...as he should. I hope she realizes that before they get too far down this road. I really hate to see Jason get hurt again.

I guess we'll see what happens next week when she goes on her home town dates with the boys. There will be snowboarding, motorcycle riding, and some one on one basketball. It's like the Bachelorette X-Games! We'll see who survives.

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